My Word. Simplify. – New Year, New You Series

Sketched a week ago on a sandy beach, overlooking the waves of Lake Michigan, with the buildings and bustle of Chicago in the background.

I learned my first lesson in simplicity when I decided to move overseas in early 2001.

It was me, my 2 duffel bags and my 2 backpacks. All my worldly possessions (minus a few things I had in storage at my parents house)…just 220 lbs of mostly clothes, books and meaningful momentos that would remind me of home.

I was off to the Dominican Republic, to teach and serve others.

Among the 5,347 things I learned about myself, life, love, and relationships while living in the Dominican Republic, one of the most profound was the concept of simplicity. (Not to be confused with minimalism, or anti-materialism.)

I found myself in a culture that moved at a different pace. A slower pace. A gentler pace. A reasonable pace.

One that I resisted at first, but came to appreciate and cherish after a few years living within it. It was simpler pace. (Although it might not seem like it, with all the crazy motorcycles whizzing around town.) The focus was not on “getting things done” or getting to the top, or having the best and most of everything. There were no Joneses in the DR. So there was no one to keep up with.

  • There was little convenience foods. None really. (So I learned to cook from scratch…I always say this blog would not be in existence, were it not for the cooking I learned to do while in the DR.)
  • There was little “paperwork,” for things like car insurance or bank accounts. (So I learned to trust in His provision and His protection. For those who are curious, we used the bank only to cash American checks into Dominican pesos. We didn’t have accounts or cards to worry about.)
  • There were no calendars or planners. (So I learned how to sit on the front porch and rock. And speak broken Spanish. That eventually turned into semi-fluent Spanish.)

All this to say…I learned to love simplicity and it will always be something I strive for in my life. But this year, I’ve decided to focus on it more intently…so I’m making “simplify,” my word for 2012.

And here’s what I think it will look like when put into practice this year.


If you were to look at my planner, you might be surprised. There’s really not much on there right now. Other than the kids swimming lessons and a handful of business trips, I keep my schedule really light through the winter months. I have said “no” to a number of different activities and requests, in an attempt to maintain balance and a simple schedule.

This gives us plenty of room for spontaneous activities, to help others when they are in need, and to be adventurous with the boys.

I have a tight work schedule and run a tight ship when it comes to “work productivity”, but I do that so I can have freedom and simplicity with our family’s schedule (or lack there of.)


We have a new rule for the next few months…if we can’t eat it, wear it or consume it in some way (cleaning supplies, wallpaper removal supplies, etc.)…it’s not coming in our house! (More on the reason for this on Tuesday!)

We just don’t need more “stuff.” We have plenty…and are perfectly content with the many things we have been given or purchased.

But here’s where I need to simplify and stay focused with my spending. I have a tendency to “make up errands” and end up purchasing things we don’t need or really want. Let me explain. It’s Thursday afternoon, dead of winter…and I need to get out of the house for a bit. So I start looking around and think “oh, we should really have this. or that. or maybe I could redo this or get new curtains for this room,” and 20 minutes later we are bundled up and on our way to Target. Or Lowe’s. Or wherever.

We really don’t need any new curtains, but I was bored…and wanted somewhere to go…so I made up the fact that we needed new curtains for the guest room. Even though it is fine how it is. And then, while in the store, I decided we “need” this, that and the other…end up walking out with way more than we need or want.

This happen to any of you? Surely, I’m not alone in this? Maybe you’re doing it and don’t realize you’re doing it?

Back to spending…Steve and I will continue our Sunday Night Meetings to stay accountable to our spending. And my “I’m bored errands.” We have set financial goals (more on those later in the week.) that we will work towards, and we will keep track of our progress on a weekly basis. And I will have to look him in the eyes each week and tell him whether or not I went on any “I’m bored errands.”

Note: These “I’m bored errands” of mine really only happen in the winter when I’m suffering from cabin fever.


Since becoming a mom, the part of my brain that deals with worry has been sent into overdrive. It comes in waves, but when it comes, it hits hard…and I go to worst case scenario mode. You know…driving down the road and you get hit with, “What if we get into an accident and I’m seriously injured, and the kids can’t get out of their car seats, and we get taken to different hospitals…who would call our family and friends to be with us?”…and on and on. (Raise your hand if you can relate. Or maybe it’s just me.)

Simplify. My hope this year is to simplify my thoughts and my worry. To be in prayer, rather than fret. And to shutdown the worry part of my brain. My hope is that I can lead a simpler life this year…one not focused on things or appearances, but focused on my family, my friends and helping others with their grocery spending!

And I’ll be sharing more of my personal, parenting, professional, and financial goals for 2012 later this week. And how I manage my goals on a week to week and month to month basis. I’ll be sharing a stellar (and free!) printable template for my weekly goals & plan that’s really helped me simplify my life and keep me moving in the right direction!

Books I’ve Read or Am Reading on Simplicity

New Year, New You Series

As we head into 2012 with fresh clean slates and the chance for a new start, I thought it would be valuable to team up with a few other bloggers and share what our plans are for the year…and hopefully inspire and encourage you to do the same!ย  In the next few weeks I’ll be highlighting and sharing all the New Year, New You posts from 5 other fabulous bloggers. We’ll be sharing ideas and challenges that will help you in this New Year. We’ll be talking about journals, reducing sugar in your kitchen, meal planning, weight loss, food allergies and much more.ย 

Joining me are…

Your turn. What’s your “word for 2012″…what are you focusing on this year? What theme can you give to this year? What can you do make your “word” a reality?


  1. Joanna Vanderkooi says

    I went to the myoneword website, after seeing a friend talk about it on FB, and fairly quickly narrowed it down to two words. I think I have decided on this one word: “DEDICATED”. I was also thinking of the word “DECREASING”, as in I have been on a weightloss endeavor, for lack of a better term (36.4 lbs. since Oct. 18, 2011), and also because the Bible says that He must increase and I must decrease. “DEDICATED” seems like it could accomplish the thought of losing weight, as well as convey what I want to do in my other areas of ministry. I teach the girls’ 6th-8th grade Sunday School class (currently studying through the boook of Genesis…we measure the length of the ark next week!), direct our puppet team, work with my husband and other leaders in our 1st-5th grade youth group, and also clean the church throughout the week. I need to be dedicated to each of those ministries to give them the best that I can…for Him! I also have three kids (finished homeschooling this past school year) who are all over the place, and I need to be dedicated to making sure they are alright, too. Daniel, 23, is in Hungary, working as a missionary with Word of Life Hungary, while Suzi, 21, is returning to Pensacola Christian College, Florida, in 20 days for her third year. Mark, 18, is our youngest, and is returning tonight, early, to Word of Life Bible Institute, because of a snow storm coming, and the folks he’s riding with want to get there before the storm hits here. My job is not over as their mama, nor is it over as Scott’s wife. We are entering this new chapter of our lives together, and I am dedicated to the notion that we are going to have a great time just being the two of us again (cruising again in February!!). So, after talking it out, here on paper, I think I really will stick with DEDICATED. God says that what is required in a steward is to be faithful, so I guess “DEDICATED” is the way I want to spend my life! Thanks for letting me ramble. I’ll go quietly now. ๐Ÿ˜€ Happy New Year! ๐Ÿ˜€

  2. Joanna Vanderkooi says

    Obviously, my word is NOT simplify, or I wouldn’t have taken so long to express myself there! ๐Ÿ˜€

  3. says

    Love it!! I definitely want to focus more on simplifying during 2012 as well which goes well with my 2012 word… PEACE!

    I want 2012 to be a peaceful, restful, organized year for our family in a way that it has not been before. I want our children to feel the peacefulness and rest in our home. And I want our hearts to be at peace where we are, with what we have, and with this time in our lives.

    Happy New Year!!

    • says

      Rock on girl…you can totally do it! You both “ooze” God’s peace…and I know you are oozing it onto your children. Peace, like faith, is one of those “contagious” things!

      Happy New Year to you too!


  4. says

    I have yet to think of a word for 2012 because there are a few too many things that I know need fixing. I need to simplify, spend better, be more patient with the kids, be more organized and productive, waste less time, actually do the things that are important to me instead of thinking about doing them and feeling bad when I don’t.

    I want to be healthier, more natural as a family. I have already started working on this because of a friend who introduced me to essential oils late this summer so we’ve been exploring more natural remedies for our health. I want the kids to eat the best versions of the healthy foods they already like (i.e. yogurt with less sugar/more protein).

    Maybe my 2012 word needs to be “BETTER,” because in a nutshell I guess that is what we’re aiming for over here. Being and doing “better” all around.

    Hope you are well…we haven’t talked in forever. Next time you’re bored, feel free to give me a call instead of going on an “I’m bored errand” (and yes I do that too!).

    • says

      I love BETTER. Can apply to anything, be general or specific as you like. And so glad I’m not the only one in the world running “I’m bored” errands!

      And I do have a question for you. And we do need to catchup! Will call soon!


  5. says

    Great word! My word last year was LESS, so it was in the same vein. I haven’t picked this year’s word yet, but I’ve filled three pages of writing trying to work it out. I’d like to have it figured out by tomorrow…

  6. says

    I am not sure what my word would be. Maybe “risk” because I plan on taking the risk of putting my writing “out there” for others to read now. Or maybe the word is “courage” for the same reason. All I know is I am no longer lsitening to the voice of self-doubt. I vanquished that voice when I managed to lose over 145 lbs, and I will vanquish that voice when it comes to my writing goals too.

  7. says

    I have been thinking of a word for the past week as I have been working on all of my 2012 goals. I keep coming back to ‘productive’. My mind tends to wander A LOT and I waste time with things like mindless tv and web surfing. I want to make better use of my 168 hours and focus on the time spent with my kids, my home, our small business, my fledgling blog career, my running and other hobbies.

    I can relate about the winter boredom. I go out of my mind stuck indoors in the winter and so do my kids.

    • says

      “conflicting and changing priorities”…I’ve written about this on Savvy Blogging. It’s tough, but you can do it! Give your attention all to what you are doing, stop multitasking. Focus on what’s in front of you…and shift your focus when needed.

      You can do it!

  8. Christy says

    Thank you for being real. Your struggles with worry really spoke to me. It is good to know that I’m not going crazy. I need to spend more time in prayer instead of worry.

  9. Sarah says

    I just discovered your blog and I really look forward to this series! Thanks!

    For me, this year will be about accepting and appreciating simplicity in my life. Huge changes are coming to my family – my husband is active duty Air Force and for the first time since I met him (6+ years) he has orders to move – from Tucson, where I have been for 8 years, to North Dakota (i.e. the middle of no where). This will be the first time really in my adult life I will be completely out of control of what is happening in my life. I am a career woman, I finished a Master’s degree and I have worked my tail off building a career over the past 5 years with a company I was sure I would be with for the rest of my working life… And now I have to walk away from all that to move to the complete unknown and start over… My goal this year is to embrace this as a gift, take a step back from the crazy pace my life has been going at, and actually take a few months off before looking for a new job to spend time with my 2 year old, travel home to see family, get my new house in order and focus on really simplifying and slowing down my life. And actually enjoying it and accepting it – I’m the kind of person who has problems sitting still and allowing myself to have fun (rather than working all the time). Plus with our family income going down by a good 60-70%, we will be needing more simplicity! Thank goodness we are already very frugal and good with coupons and out of debt (other than car payments) or I don’t know how we could survive this.

    Again, thanks for hosting such a great blog!

    • says

      Welcome Sarah! What a transition you are facing…I think embracing simplicity during times of transition are essential. You can focus better on your emotions, the physical aspects of moving, and the relationships/responsibilities you are leaving behind, and take on the new ones on “the other side”.



  10. says

    Great post, helps us all to think about what we are looking to do this year.
    I think my word would be ‘Brave’. I am stepping out doing many things that are out of my comfort zone like public speaking, teaching classes, etc. All of which scare me to death, but I am trying to overcome that and be brave and take risks. I’m trying to trust God with the plans he has for me instead of trying to control my own life and running out of fear from what He’s called me to do.

  11. Patty says

    Awesome post!!

    May I cheat a little and have a phrase rather than a word? My guiding principle for 2012 is “attitude of service.” I have found myself so resentful of my family obligations (single parent to an active 9 yr old), my work obligations (FT), and my zillion other obligations.

    But why be resentful in the face of such abundant blessing? For example, doing laundry is not my favorite. But how blessed are we to have clean clothes, towels, sheets, etc! How blessed are we to have the facilities and water to keep our clothes clean! How blessed are we to have clothes and coats and socks to keep us warm in winter!

    From Proverbs 31, this is what I strive for: “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.”

  12. Jessica says

    My word – PRESENT. As in to live in the PRESENT, not to regret the past or fret about the future but to live in this moment. The PRESENT is the only time we have – we can’t go back and we are not guaranteed the future. The PRESENT is where things get DONE instead of put off. The PRESENT is where I should be focusing, and where I should find joy every day. The PRESENT is where I need to live my live, love my boys, relate to God, help others, take the steps to achieving my goals.

    SO loving the one word theme!

    Patty – love the post, the Proverbs 31 woman is one high bar! Go you!

  13. says

    BASICS. I know what makes me happy. I know that working out on a regular basis, watching what I eat, having dinner with girlfriends, going to movies with my kids, going out to dinner with my hubby, and many other “small” things – make me happy. They are the basics. I need to remember these and strive to include them in my life each week, instead of filling up my life with the newest, best, pretty, shiny, thing that I think will enrich my life.

  14. Kara M says


    God began me on this “simplfy” journey in August when my 11 yr old daughter was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome and I found within a couple of weeks of that many of my activities (things that were good and that I LOVED doing) disappearing for no reason. I struggled with it for a week or two until my pastor pointed out that God had a reason for this and to sit back and listen. I heard God telling me that HE wanted me to have more free time during the day so I had plenty of time to get everything done so I had time to focus on my daughter and her homework (which she has needed LOTS of help with) when she gets home from school. It’s not always easy, but it’s been a good thing.
    A little book that has helped me tremendously during this and put into words(on the Dec 27 passage) exactly what God had been doing in my life this fall is “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Young.
    Thanks for sharing those titles with us–I look forward to looking into some of them! Good luck with Simplfying!!

  15. says

    For 2012 I’d like to move from surviving to thriving. I sometimes feel so bogged down by just trying to get by and get it all done every day. I want to live more fully and really thrive in the moment of all that God has graciously given me.

  16. AKM says

    My motto for this year is, “Simple will do in Two-Thousand-One-Two.” (It’s just hard finding words that rhyme with “twelve.” I mean, you’ve got “delve” and “shelve,” but…??? Heheheh.)

    I’m trying to embrace simplicity, minimalism, and frugality now more than ever! It feels great, BTW. I’m curious, though…how would you differentiate between “simplicity” and “minimalism”? In a way, I realize that they’re not really the same thing, but I’m hard-pressed as to how they are in fact defined as different. Perhaps “minimalism” is buying or having things with a clear and thoughtful purpose, while “simplicity” is DOING things with a clear and thoughtful purpose? I’d love to hear more of your thoughts regarding this aspect.

  17. Nancy says

    My word for the year is really two, but they are related. Health and Energy. I went through surgery, chemotherapy and radiation treatment in late 2010 for uterine cancer. My prognosis is really good, but, I am now just getting all my energy back. So health is premium for me, and the energy will be a way to determine that health. I will walk more, and even hit the gym. I have a goal to take 4 flights of stairs upa dn down each day. May not seem like much, but it is a start. The way I am eating takes into account health and energy. I have hanging in my office and on my fridge at home the saying “Fighting cancer is hard! Eating right is nothing in comparison.” Best to you and your family. Have enjoyed your site the last year and a half.

  18. says

    Great post! We have been moving in this direction too.

    I was wondering if you could share your simplified work schedule as a blogger. I’m a blogger too but am not nearly as productive as you are. I have lots of ideas in my head that keep getting pushed to next week because there are too many pressing issues this week. I devote from 8-9am every day to my blogs but it just doesn’t seem like enough.



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